Let’s talk about what are the elements of collaboration, what do you feel is an important element to have for a good collaborative process?

I was pondering this in the shower before today and for me it was acceptance because I was obviously looking at it from a point of view of when I have pretended to collaborate but there hasn’t been an acceptance of myself and others. 

So for me it was like acceptance is a key ingredient of collaboration. And then there was harmlessness and then that thing of knowing who you are if you accept …

Oh whoa if you carry on we won’t need the other three.

See I’m not collaborating!

That’s exactly it! You see, you said that you struggled with collaboration so that’s a very good example to prove the thing.